9 Things to Do When You Have Stopped Loving Your Congregation

ChurchLeaders | 7/29/2018 | Staff
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I’m afraid it happens. The congregation we once loved has brought pain, and it’s hard—if not impossible—to love them now. If that’s where you are, here are some suggestions I pray will help:

Enlist some prayer warriors to pray for you and your church. Don’t try to change your heart alone. You can’t do it, and you’ll only grow more frustrated. Intentionally seek God’s help to love His people again.

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Admit your feelings to God. He already knows them, and He’s big enough to handle them and work in your heart at the same time.

Do something loving for your church. Godly love is not dependent on having the right emotions; it’s about doing the right thing to express love even when our feelings aren’t there. Doing something loving might be as simple as (a) praying for members and letting them know you’re doing so; (b) letting go of anger toward others who’ve hurt you; or (c) ministering practically (e.g., cutting grass, etc.) to someone who drives you crazy.

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As needed, confess your own wrong. Never are we perfect, and seldom are we not at least a part of the problem. Be willing to consider whether you’ve contributed to the problem at all.

Remember some good times with the congregation. I’m assuming you’ve had at least a few good...
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